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Celebration of life invitation wording: 35 gentle examples

Thirty-five celebration of life invitation examples for a mother, father, grandparent or friend, casual gatherings, potlucks and faith services, plus texts, what to include and when to send.

November 9, 2026 · 4 min read

A celebration of life invitation tells people where and when to gather, and how the family hopes to remember the person they lost. It can be warmer and more personal than a funeral notice. Write it the way they would have liked.

What every celebration of life invitation needs

  1. Their nameFull name, and the name everyone called them.
  2. Their yearsBirth and death years, if you'd like to include them.
  3. Date and timeWhen to arrive, and an end time if it's an open house.
  4. PlaceThe address, with parking or directions if it's hard to find.
  5. Reply byOnly if you need a count for food or seating.

Add these only when they apply:

DetailSay it like this
DressWear their favourite colour, Come as you are
FoodLight refreshments, Please bring a dish to share
MemoriesBring a story or a photo to share
FlowersIn lieu of flowers, please give to...
KidsChildren are welcome

35 celebration of life invitation wording examples

Change the names, places and details to fit the person you're remembering.

For a mother

  1. Please join us as we celebrate the life of our mother, Margaret Ann Walsh.
  2. Mom filled every room with laughter. Join us to remember her, Saturday at 2.
  3. In loving memory of Linda, a mother, a friend and the heart of our family.
  4. We invite you to share stories, food and love as we remember our mom.
  5. Come celebrate the beautiful life of Rose Ellen Turner, 1948 to 2026.

For a father

  1. Please join us to celebrate the life of our dad, Robert "Bob" Hughes.
  2. Dad never missed a barbecue. Join us for one more in his honour.
  3. Celebrating the life of James Miller, a devoted father, grandfather and friend.
  4. In memory of Frank, who taught us how to fish, fix things and laugh at ourselves.
  5. Come share a story about Dad, Saturday afternoon at the lake house.

For a grandparent

  1. Please join us as we celebrate the long and loving life of Grandma Betty.
  2. Ninety-two years of kindness. Join us to remember Grandpa Joe.
  3. Nana's kitchen was always open. Come share a meal in her memory.
  4. We invite family and friends to celebrate the life of our grandmother, Helen Brooks.
  5. Celebrating Papa: a life of hard work, bad jokes and big hugs.

For a friend

  1. Please join us to celebrate the life of our dear friend, Sarah Lin.
  2. Mike would have wanted a party, so that's what we're having. Come raise a glass.
  3. Celebrating Anna: the friend who always showed up. Let's show up for her.
  4. Join us as we gather to remember Chris, and to be together.
  5. We miss Jess. Come share your favourite memories, Saturday at 4.

Casual gathering or open house

  1. Drop by anytime between 1 and 4 to remember Tom and visit with family.
  2. An open house in memory of Carol. Come and go as you're able.
  3. No black, no speeches required. Just come and remember Dave with us.
  4. Please join us at the park pavilion for a relaxed afternoon in memory of Lisa.
  5. Wear something bright. Lily would have loved that.

Potluck

  1. Please join us for a potluck in memory of Ruth. Bring a dish she would have loved.
  2. Celebrating Walter with food, family and stories. Please bring a dish to share.
  3. Gran's recipes, made by all of us. A potluck celebration of her life.
  4. Bring a dish and a story. We'll gather in memory of Joan on Sunday at noon.
  5. Food was how Dad showed love. Join our potluck in his memory.

With faith

  1. A celebration of life for Mary Kelly will be held at St. Joseph's Church, followed by a reception.
  2. We give thanks for the life of Thomas Reed. Please join us for a memorial service and lunch.
  3. Please join us at Grace Chapel as we celebrate Elaine's life and her faith.
  4. "To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." Join us to remember Paul.
  5. With grateful hearts, we invite you to celebrate the life of Pastor John Evans.

Text messages

  1. We're having a celebration of life for Mom on Saturday, May 9, at 2 p.m. at our house. We'd love for you to come.
  2. Dad's celebration of life is Sunday at 1, at the Legion hall. Bring a story if you have one.
  3. Hi, it's Sarah. We're gathering to remember Grandma next Saturday. Can you let me know if you can come?
  4. Thank you for all your messages. Details for Mike's celebration of life are below.

Ways to invite people to share a memory

  1. Memory cardsAsk guests to write a favourite story on arrival.
  2. Photo tableInvite everyone to bring one printed photo.
  3. Open micA few minutes for anyone who wants to speak.
  4. OnlineAsk far-away family to send a message or a photo before the day.

When to send

GatheringSendReply by
Celebration of life2 to 3 weeks before1 week before
Months after the passing4 to 6 weeks before2 weeks before
Small family gathering1 week beforeNot needed

Paper or digital?

A digital invitation reaches everyone quickly, including family far away, and keeps replies in one list. Paper&Seal invitations open like a real envelope and are free for up to 25 guests. On The Invitation and up, guests can also leave a message or a photo on the invitation page.

FAQ

What is the difference between a funeral and a celebration of life?

A funeral is usually held within days and follows a religious or traditional order. A celebration of life can be held any time, anywhere, and focuses on stories and the person's personality.

Do you need to RSVP to a celebration of life?

Only if the family asks for it, usually so they can plan food or seating. If there's a reply line, it helps to answer.

What do you wear to a celebration of life?

Whatever the invitation says. If it doesn't say, smart casual is safe, and many families ask for bright colours or the person's favourite colour.

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