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Celebration of life invitation wording: 35 gentle examples
Thirty-five celebration of life invitation examples for a mother, father, grandparent or friend, casual gatherings, potlucks and faith services, plus texts, what to include and when to send.
November 9, 2026 · 4 min read
A celebration of life invitation tells people where and when to gather, and how the family hopes to remember the person they lost. It can be warmer and more personal than a funeral notice. Write it the way they would have liked.
What every celebration of life invitation needs
- Their nameFull name, and the name everyone called them.
- Their yearsBirth and death years, if you'd like to include them.
- Date and timeWhen to arrive, and an end time if it's an open house.
- PlaceThe address, with parking or directions if it's hard to find.
- Reply byOnly if you need a count for food or seating.
Add these only when they apply:
| Detail | Say it like this |
|---|---|
| Dress | Wear their favourite colour, Come as you are |
| Food | Light refreshments, Please bring a dish to share |
| Memories | Bring a story or a photo to share |
| Flowers | In lieu of flowers, please give to... |
| Kids | Children are welcome |
35 celebration of life invitation wording examples
Change the names, places and details to fit the person you're remembering.
For a mother
- Please join us as we celebrate the life of our mother, Margaret Ann Walsh.
- Mom filled every room with laughter. Join us to remember her, Saturday at 2.
- In loving memory of Linda, a mother, a friend and the heart of our family.
- We invite you to share stories, food and love as we remember our mom.
- Come celebrate the beautiful life of Rose Ellen Turner, 1948 to 2026.
For a father
- Please join us to celebrate the life of our dad, Robert "Bob" Hughes.
- Dad never missed a barbecue. Join us for one more in his honour.
- Celebrating the life of James Miller, a devoted father, grandfather and friend.
- In memory of Frank, who taught us how to fish, fix things and laugh at ourselves.
- Come share a story about Dad, Saturday afternoon at the lake house.
For a grandparent
- Please join us as we celebrate the long and loving life of Grandma Betty.
- Ninety-two years of kindness. Join us to remember Grandpa Joe.
- Nana's kitchen was always open. Come share a meal in her memory.
- We invite family and friends to celebrate the life of our grandmother, Helen Brooks.
- Celebrating Papa: a life of hard work, bad jokes and big hugs.
For a friend
- Please join us to celebrate the life of our dear friend, Sarah Lin.
- Mike would have wanted a party, so that's what we're having. Come raise a glass.
- Celebrating Anna: the friend who always showed up. Let's show up for her.
- Join us as we gather to remember Chris, and to be together.
- We miss Jess. Come share your favourite memories, Saturday at 4.
Casual gathering or open house
- Drop by anytime between 1 and 4 to remember Tom and visit with family.
- An open house in memory of Carol. Come and go as you're able.
- No black, no speeches required. Just come and remember Dave with us.
- Please join us at the park pavilion for a relaxed afternoon in memory of Lisa.
- Wear something bright. Lily would have loved that.
Potluck
- Please join us for a potluck in memory of Ruth. Bring a dish she would have loved.
- Celebrating Walter with food, family and stories. Please bring a dish to share.
- Gran's recipes, made by all of us. A potluck celebration of her life.
- Bring a dish and a story. We'll gather in memory of Joan on Sunday at noon.
- Food was how Dad showed love. Join our potluck in his memory.
With faith
- A celebration of life for Mary Kelly will be held at St. Joseph's Church, followed by a reception.
- We give thanks for the life of Thomas Reed. Please join us for a memorial service and lunch.
- Please join us at Grace Chapel as we celebrate Elaine's life and her faith.
- "To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." Join us to remember Paul.
- With grateful hearts, we invite you to celebrate the life of Pastor John Evans.
Text messages
- We're having a celebration of life for Mom on Saturday, May 9, at 2 p.m. at our house. We'd love for you to come.
- Dad's celebration of life is Sunday at 1, at the Legion hall. Bring a story if you have one.
- Hi, it's Sarah. We're gathering to remember Grandma next Saturday. Can you let me know if you can come?
- Thank you for all your messages. Details for Mike's celebration of life are below.
Ways to invite people to share a memory
- Memory cardsAsk guests to write a favourite story on arrival.
- Photo tableInvite everyone to bring one printed photo.
- Open micA few minutes for anyone who wants to speak.
- OnlineAsk far-away family to send a message or a photo before the day.
When to send
| Gathering | Send | Reply by |
|---|---|---|
| Celebration of life | 2 to 3 weeks before | 1 week before |
| Months after the passing | 4 to 6 weeks before | 2 weeks before |
| Small family gathering | 1 week before | Not needed |
Paper or digital?
A digital invitation reaches everyone quickly, including family far away, and keeps replies in one list. Paper&Seal invitations open like a real envelope and are free for up to 25 guests. On The Invitation and up, guests can also leave a message or a photo on the invitation page.
FAQ
What is the difference between a funeral and a celebration of life?
A funeral is usually held within days and follows a religious or traditional order. A celebration of life can be held any time, anywhere, and focuses on stories and the person's personality.
Do you need to RSVP to a celebration of life?
Only if the family asks for it, usually so they can plan food or seating. If there's a reply line, it helps to answer.
What do you wear to a celebration of life?
Whatever the invitation says. If it doesn't say, smart casual is safe, and many families ask for bright colours or the person's favourite colour.